Their typical mistakes part 2

We begin with the subject from the past edition, exploring the most common mistakes that married women commit and they carrying all luck of problems in their marriage. Many husbands have already gone through fire with their respective wives, some of them had horrible experiences and constantly are tempted to leave and look for another woman. In this edition we will describe other types of wives. 5. Jealous Claudia - She is jealous of everything and everyone who come close to her husband, even his own parents. When a woman demonstrates jealousy towards her husband, it shows insecurity in herself and this is weak point that no man likes. Husbands like having strong wives next to them; women sufficiently secure to go through any situation and still be strong at the end of the day. The wife must take care of her husband, but without reaching the point of having this sentiment. 6. Irritable Irma - this is a woman who is constantly angry. Any thing that is said or done makes her lose the patience easily. An irritable woman makes everyone around her feel uncomfortable. The Bible says: “Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and ill-tempered wife.” (Proverbs 21:19). People avoid her and nevertheless she thinks that they do not understand her. What she doesn't known is that this is nobody’s problem, but of hers. 7. The independent Yvonne - believes that she does not need a husband except for social formalities because she will cause a better impression on having a man next to her. Her life is normally a mystery for him, which always questions the reason why she fell down in this pitfall and turned into a white elephant in her life. Wedding is a union of minds, of desires, of ideas, in end, of everything one could think of. When one of the spouses does not understand the fact that now they are only one body, difficultly the marriage will be happy. 8. Busy Ofelia - This is the wife who is always busy with everything that has nothing to do with her husband. Some are so busy with their jobs and their children who end up by placing the marriage in second place. How can someone not worry about the most important person in their life? How can your children be happy when their parents are divorced? How can your job be successful and prosperous, even make your rich, but rich and alone? How does your work of charity mean something to others if those who are closest to you are the neediest? Many wives suffer because of their own mistakes and if they only changed their behavior and attitudes they would see he fruits of their marriage: and even of their chains of prayer for their family! The prayer alone does not do that! We have to act with knowledge. To act and pray. We have to act with knowledge. To act and pray. There are many husbands who are frequenting the church and saving their souls due to the change of behavior of their wives in their house. It is as that famous verse of the Bible says: " 1Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, ” (1 Peter 3:1).


In faith,
Mrs. Cristiane Cardoso